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Post by silence on Jan 23, 2013 13:08:08 GMT -8
It's a simple but important recognition. It can put an end to each partner trying to drain the other one of their life force to fill themselves up. Is co-dependency what love is all about or is that really just ego's making a contractual agreement so long as each one's needs are met? Actually no one can drain you of your own life force. You do the draining yourself. Conditional love is exhausting. The focus is on the conditions and the goal is to make them just right so love can flourish. The approach is backwards. Right. People aren't actually sucking the life out of each other but it is the premise that most relationships operate off of even if it's a bogus and subtle one. Once it appears this person isn't making me happy any longer it's time to move on. |
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Post by Reefs on Jan 23, 2013 22:27:36 GMT -8
Motivated action is like this: I'm writing a response to you to based on the stimulus of your comment/post.
Inspired action is like this: [waiting...] Motivated action means you write a response because you think you should write one. There's a very good reason behind it. Inspired action means you write a response because you really wanna write it or writing just happens. There's no real reason behind it. |
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